Friday, December 15, 2006

Female Superiority

For years now, I've been hearing from many different sources about different things that Females are better at than males. Each on their own probably doesn't mean much, but when you put them all together, they equal Female Superiority.
Unlike the idea of male superiority, which is based on the fact that males have a penis, and has no evidence to back it up, Female Superiority has a lot of evidence to back it up. As far as I'm concerned, it's a fact.
Here is the evidence I've collected so far:

Men may be the weaker sex
British Medical Journal report: "the fragile male"
Women handle pain better than men
Females handle stress better than males
Male violence blamed on genes (Anybody who tries to say a Matriarchal world wouldn't be more peaceful is a fool).
Women better than men at instant maths
Wake up, men: Women are better at running the show
Academic survey gives Women nod as better bosses
The Female CEO ca. 2002
Gender gaps on the brain: bigger brains don't make men smarter
UF STUDY: men think they have better memories; Women really do
Keeping cool - Study finds women's brains are better at handling anger
Gene study: Women are responsible for brains
How men's power over women fuels the HIV epidemic (Not necessarily about Female Superiority, but it shows how men having power is harmful).
Male mood swings caused by drop in testosterone levels (And men have the nerve to call us moody and hormonal!)
Are Women better investors than men?
Women are better drivers
The Y chromosome: goldmine and junkyard
Women and science: new research explodes old bias
It's a Woman's world: the phasing out of men
God the mother
As leaders, Women rule
Women, it seems, are better bosses
Health habits worse in men, CDC reports
Women docs relate to patients better (I can attest to this one. My last doctor was male, and he was a jackass. He ignored most of the problems I went to him with).
Women outlast men during exercise

Wednesday, December 13, 2006

Now you see them, now you don't

What is it with the submissive males you meet through personals websites? You start talking to a guy and things seem to be going pretty well, but as soon as you ask them for a picture, they pull a disappearing act.

Relatively new to all of this

I've been "involved" in BDSM for about 10 years now. I put "involved" in quotes because most of my involvement has been online. I did have some mild bondage experiences with my first boyfriend - We tied each other up during sex. I found that I liked tying him up a lot more than I liked being tied up. The power of having him at my mercy while I did things to him was intoxicating.
I've read books, websites, talked to people, I've even had an online slave once. But so far, it's only been online. I still haven't managed to find a slave in real life, despite having had ads on numerous BDSM personals websites. In my experience, most of the guys on those sites claiming to be submissive are just looking for kinky sex, not a Mistress/slave relationship, or even a remotely D/s relationship. One guy even messaged me and said he was looking for someone to cheat on his girlfriend discreetly behind her back with.
So, I keep looking. Not finding a whole lot, but I keep looking nonetheless.
I was recently talking to a submissive on Collarme. It seemed to be going well for a while, and then out of the blue - nothing. I haven't heard from him now for about 2 or 3 weeks. I'm not sure what happened. I guess maybe I said something he didn't like. Oh well, his loss. I continue looking, and talking to other submissives on Collarme.